Does silence have teeth?

You’d think silence had teeth.  

And was ravenous.

To eat me.

Let me back up a bit...

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There I was. Standing in the breezy hallway, sunlight bouncing, calling us towards each other. 

 

There THEY were. So accomplished, so capable. 

 

What could I have to say?

Do I even have anything to contribute? 

What if I'm not witty enough?  

 

What if, I was (*insert scary moment in a movie music*)…


Quiet

 

Would the world turn to stare at me? If I couldn’t think of the right phrase, spoken with just-right pitch and precise tone, would the floor open and swallow me whole? 

 

What if I’m too quiet and I make a horrible impression? 

 

It was time. I stood there, insides doing backflips, trying to stay in the present moment. 

 

Breathe deep. Start connecting. 

 

Then, lo and behold:


A moment of silence

 

The entire room froze. Jaws dropped. Slowly, in unison, everyone turned. Arms began lifting. Pointing. At me. There she is, The Silent One. An agonizing chant. I turned, stumbled, ran screaming out of the room with my arms flailing, the word SHAME appearing in ink on my back…

 

:) 

 

OK. So, here’s what really happened:

 

After a brief lull, we kept going, enjoyed meeting each other, and left the introduction able to appreciate our brief moment of connection. 

 

The silence didn’t hurt us at all.

 

It gave us a chance to be human together.

 

To breathe. To think. To be still. 

 

That moment of quiet gave us the opportunity to reset and begin again. 
 

Maybe silence doesn’t have teeth.


Perhaps pausing in the middle of a conversation isn’t failure. 
 

Quiet leaves room for the performance to fall away and connection to grow. 
 

Quiet carves out space for us to learn how to be with each other in the tenderness of our humanity. 

 

Silence can be awkward, but it can also be like drinking a cool glass of water:

 

Just what we need to be refreshed and move towards genuine connection.